"Hey Honey, I've been putting my dick into a contraption that sucks the air out in order to make my cock bigger."

Is this what your wife may think if you tell her about penis pumping?

Probably not, as long as you have good communication skills.

Lucky for you, we have several positive and effective approaches you can use to tell your partner about penis pumping below.

How would your partner react to learning about your penis pumping ambitions?

They might be:

• Surprised
• Confused
• Intrigued
• Happy
• Curious
• Horny
• Upset
• Angry
• Betrayed
• Indifferent
• Supportive

All of these emotional reactions are valid, and of course everyone will react differently.

Therefore, telling your partner about your penis pumping pursuits should be a well thought out decision that comprises many factors.

Let's get into the pros, cons, and reasons why people disclose or keep private their penis enlargement endeavors.

Why Men Might Tell Their Partner About Their Penis Pumping Activities

1. They Don't Have to Hide It Anymore

One of the biggest hassles with penis pumping is having to hide it from someone you live with.

Finding secret hiding spots for cylinders and pistol pump triggers. Storing the heating pads and cylinder sleeves in locked boxes. Taking suspiciously longer showers, or locking the office door for extended periods of time.

We have several articles about this very topic like How to Keep Penis Pumping Private and How To Store and Hide Your Pump.

I'm sure we've all had a time when we left out a random penis pump paraphernalia, and had to make up an excuse for what it was. When my partner first saw my SmartTech Electric Pump Remote Control, she thought it was an electronic clippers for shaving facial hair.

The bottom line is, having to hide, lock away, and make up excuses for what random pumping items are, can be physically challenging and mentally tiring.

Telling your partner about your penis pumping activities means that you no longer have to sneak in sessions, hide parts, or make up excuses about it.

2. Telling Their Partner Deepens Their Intimacy, Sexual Connection, and Open Communication

Sex is the most intimate connection two people can have, and penis enlargement can play an integral role in that connection.

Being transparent about your sexual goals for a larger member can open up an honest conversation regarding intimacy, pleasure, and sex. It allows your partner to step into your world and see why you might want a larger penis, which builds trust and closeness in the process.

If your partner doesn't know about penis pumping, you know that you're enlarging your penis and it's having a (positive) effect on your sex life. But your partner doesn't know and it's essentially keeping something from them. By telling them, you're removing a barrier to intimacy which might make the everything from pumping to sex more relaxing, connected, and natural.

Overall, many relationships and couples thrive due to great communication, and fail due to poor communication. Maintaining ongoing positive communication without incorporating penis pumps should be fine if you want to keep it a secret - but disclosing your enhancement goals could also strengthen the bond even more.

3. It Reduces Shame or Embarrassment About Penis Enlargement

Penis pumping is taboo. You can't even look up how often people search for it on Google, because the term "penis pumping" is censored.

Many people improve their physical body whether it's exercising, working out, dieting, or even plastic surgery. Why should something that's empowering for men be looked down upon?

By telling your partner about pumping, it can remove any layer of shame or embarrassment about the topic. Once it's out in the open, it becomes known and normalized. Maybe we should all be doing that more to reduce the stigma.

4. They Want Support or Involvement from Their Partner

Some partners may want to support your sexual empowerment journey and would love to hear about it. While others may actively encourage you or even involve themselves in it.

If you're an experienced pumper, you'll know that in general, women tend to react positively to gains. Whether that's consciously getting more excited, or their bodies reacting with greater pleasure.

Some partners may even want to take part in pumping sessions by pulling the trigger or pressing buttons to feel more intimately connected to you.

At the very least, your partner would understand the reason you slip away to the bedroom for your pumping sessions.

5. It Helps Manage Expectations and Surprises

You can only make so many excuses. Eventually your partner will know that your dick is getting bigger.

Instead of having to constantly explain that it's naturally growing bigger, or you're just excited to see her, you can tell her the truth that you've been making small and steady gains, and that's why it feels bigger. Therefore she won't be surprised or caught off guard, and it can be part of an open conversation.

6. They Want Their Partner To Know Their Penis Is Getting Bigger

The male penis is a symbol of masculinity and sexual prowess. Sometimes you just want your partner (or others) to know that you have a big one, or are getting bigger.

Why? Bringing things to the surface and making it known adds more weight and permanence to it.

Sure, your partner might be making more audible moans or coming harder, but they don't know why. When she knows why she's coming harder, and it's because of you, that's a sense of validation and confidence every man wants to feel.

Why Men Don't Tell Their Partner About Penis Pumping

1. They Think Their Partner Might Not Understand It

Some men may not tell their partner about penis pumping because they think their partner will not understand it.

Their partner may think it's a sign of insecurity, a misplaced goal, or believe it means that their man isn't satisfied with the current sexual relationship.

Fearing that their partner may take it personally or misinterpret their intentions is a reason why many men don't tell their partners about penis enlargement.

2. They Think Their Partner Might Not Support It

Maybe their partner doesn't take it personally and understands their reasons behind penis pumping, but still doesn't support it.

Some men feel that their partner will not actively support or encourage their penis pumping pursuits, and that it's better to keep it private.

3. They Are Still At The Early Stages of the Relationship

If you are at the early stages of a relationship, it might be premature to tell your partner about your sexual endowment goals.

Many men are still figuring out the dynamics of the relationship and slowly building trust with lower hanging fruit. At this point, relationship goals are fleshing out the chemistry and seeing if this person's a good fit - not sharing your deepest personal details.

You don't want to scare the person away so you might refrain from disclosing your penis enlargement activities until there's a greater level of trust, commitment, and intimacy.

4. They Are Still At Early Stages of Penis Pumping and Enlargement

Maybe you've been in a marriage for decades, but you're new to penis pumping and that's why you don't tell your partner.

You are still sussing out the benefits and results of penis pumping, so why jump the gun and tell your partner about it?

You won't have answers to their questions. You won't be confident and certain in your conversations about it. It's best to wait until you've passed the beginner pumping stages of learning and testing before starting any potential conversations about penis enlargement.

5. They Want Pumping To Be a Personal Choice and Goal

Have you ever started going to the gym with a friend, and one day they are too tired to go, then they stop going regularly, and it affects your motivation?

Sometimes we just want to do things on our own and protect our sense of individuality and independence.

We don't need external opinions, thoughts, or motivation - we know how we feel about it, and don't want others people's thoughts to shift the focus away from our own.

By keeping penis pumping private, we can move at our own pace, measure progress by our own standards, and even stop pumping if it's not for us without needing anyone else's perspective.

Best Ways To Tell Your Partner About Penis Pumping

If you decide to share your penis pumping pursuits with your partner, there are several positive, easygoing, and effective ways to make sure they learn about it in a way that feels natural, comfortable, and even engaging for them.

1. Present Penis Pumping As Optimizing Health and Fitness

If you are naturally interested in exercising, diet, fitness, and health, then penis pumping can be framed as something similar - optimizing your sexual health and wellness.

Penis enlargement can help improve blood flow, sexual function, erection quality, and irregular penile shapes, all of which are grounded in health.

Supplementary activities to penis pumping like kegels are done to strengthen the pelvic floor which connects to other areas of the region like your anus and rectum.

Connecting penis pumping to improving your sexual and bodily health is a great way to start the conversation.

2. Present Penis Pumping As Self Improvement

Similarly, if you are big into self improvement, you can talk about how penis enlargement is part of your self improvement journey.

This is ideal for men who like to challenge themselves - whether it's refining their lifestyle, building better daily habits, striving for career and work achievements, or setting general lofty life goals.

When penis pumping is looked at as part of the masculine self improvement journey, it feels less like a separate activity only focused on making the dick bigger, and more like a natural extension of their personal growth.

3. Highlight Benefits For Both Parties

How many women would realistically not want another 0.25" inch of girth on their partner? If we present it poorly - like she's a size queen or dissatisfied - then she might state she doesn't want you to be any bigger. But the results speak for themselves.

Unless you already have large girth, an extra 0.25" inches of girth will be a welcomed surprise for the vast majority of women.

Therefore, instead of just talking about how she'll love it more, also talk about how much more you love it. You can say things like:

• She feels tighter when you pump before sex
• It feels good for you when you pump before sex
• You love when she gets wet, and she gets more wet when you pump before sex
• You feel closer to her during sex when you pump before sex
• You can even tease her during sex with comments like "are you sure you can take it all in?" or "I don't know if I should put it all the way in".

4. Use Humor

Using humor to talk about penis pumping can make it fun, light, and take the edge off the conversation. Talking about penis pumping in a serious manner all the time will get awkward, boring, and sterile.

Spice it up a bit with some humor.

When you're about to perform a pumping session, tell your wife that you're about to work out "the one muscle you can't show off in public" that only she sees, knows, and loves. This incorporates some light-hearted humor and can make her feel special and close to you. Some other humorous lines could be:

• "Time for the one-eyed monster to get a workout in" - tying in the fitness/health aspect with some humor.
• "Time to put him in bootcamp" - presenting penis pumping as hard work and requiring discipline, but also personifying your penis in a funny way.

Humor is a great way to make a pumping conversation feel more relaxed and approachable. But don't always use humor - if you do it too often, it might seem like it's not a serious activity or that you're compensating for embarrassment and shame!

5. Be Knowledgeable

Presenting penis pumping in a knowledgeable way shows that you are taking it seriously, and have done your homework. It shows diligence versus impulsivity - which your partner will appreciate.

When you're able to explain the process behind pumping, the reasoning, the routines, and the expected outcomes, your partner will be more at ease and comfortable with the idea.

Being knowledgeable and confident about what you're doing will give your partner the reassurance they need to be supportive and allow you to pursue your goals.

Final Thoughts On Telling Your Partner About Pumping

There is no right answer to whether you should tell your partner or not, as every relationship is unique and different.

Some men will choose to share it to strengthen trust and communication, invite conversation, and so they don't have to tip-toe around the house while hiding their devices or pumping.

Some men will choose not to share it because they want to treat pumping as a personal goal, or they are still evaluating it and deciding what role it'll play in their lives.

If you do decide to share your pumping pursuits, there are several positive and relatable ways to tell your partner.

Whatever route you decide to take, it's important to take time to consider all factors, and approach it with confidence and certainty.